a lesson from Panti Jompo

hi guys. two blog updates tonight. it's kinda long ago since my last update. well, i want to express everything that i do. AMSA last activity -panti jompo : where old people who ignored by their family gather together- , my preparation to my last exam (block 3) that is so freaking crap, my preparation to my dance cover competition, and last i watch Harry Potter and The Deathly Hallows with my high school friend, woaw. there are a lot stuff happen in this 2 weeks. i have been busy with my exam, so i limit my time to do something that can lose my concentration to exam. well today I would like to give you a lesson, well i get this lesson when i visit Panti Jompo ( @ RS Myria Palembang), well it's AMSA activity, next day from socialization day.

AMSA last activity, well. it was great to be a grandchildren for the grandma and grandpa who "ignored" by their family in a day. i think all the old people want to share a lot, so we need to hear what they want to say patiently.. hmm.. I'm learning something from them, that is when people grow up their character actually coming back to a infant level, like a wheel.

they want you to give your attention to them, care to them. when we came to the Panti Jompo, the grandmas and grandpas seems so happy, i see a smile on their face, you know? when we decided to finish the activity, they kiss me in cheek then say,

"..if someday you are already a doctor, coming back here, and take care of me.."

i was so happy and proud when she say that to me *i think to all my friend too* dont you know? when we only spend 3 hours to them, they say want us to take care of them, because we give attention to them, that's make they feel happy. so for all of you, how busy you are, dont ever think to put your beloved parents to Panti Jompo, there's no any people who want to live there, they prefer to live with you, although it's hard for you to live with them. just think that when they're gone.. what should you do? rewinding time? no.. there's nothing you can do, except feels sorry, feel bad. only that.

well i get a funny story to, when we do a holistic approaching to each room in that panti jompo, i got a grandma who is live in Thailand long ago. her husband is a TNI *indonesia war warrior*. they meet in thailand in 1947 -i dont sure about the year- then they fall in love and she move to indonesia and never coming back to Thailand until today, then my expression like "whoaa, dont you miss your family?" sadly, her husband died when she was pregnant for their first baby, so sad and as a single mother she struggled to make her child to be a success people. but badly, her lovely boy *now has a wife and 2 sons* put her in Panti Jompo, cause he is too busy working in Jakarta, look?! how dare he do that ! you get something from this story? Parent's love is until the end of time, but children's love?

well, it's my night story for today. i write i isn't because i feel like i'm perfect. no, no that. i write this to open our mind, that our parent is so precious, no one can replace them. even one of grandpa in there told me that, "it's better to take care us by hire a babysitter than put us in this place" you know now? hope what i write here helping you.

well i have to tell you that i'm entering block 4 about anatomy and physiology, so sorry but i think i couldnt to update my blog recently. so sorry for my bad english and sampai jumpa..